While I agree in most part with B.T.R, I think (in my opinion) that you should take it 1 step further with members having "personal" conversations.
I don't need to know about your sister's brother in law's toe fungus, or your husbands bad day at work. Take that to yahoo chat or Skype.
What I do want to know is that while I watch C&S are arguing again, Leora started to paint.