She does not give off the aura of an authority figure to me at all. Especially eastern European. There would be more obvious signs around the house, trust me. And police generally go to work in thier uniforms, or at least take a big bag containing all her essentials of the job. I would expect to see Paul handcuffed to the dog once in awhile if it were true.
I think that she is most definitely in touch with her sexuality, which is nice to see from someone younger. Most in thier 20's dont know what to do with what they're blessed with! I like her subtle way of teasing and even get a kick out of her play acting.