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  1. I think the term honoring is a bit steep, respect for or perseverance is  probably more in line with the general concensus of opinion. The question is where do you draw the line? Should a person give certified medical advice which could genuinely emhance a person's pattern of behaviour can this be construed as criticism?  This could actually help someone to address or have a serious think about their lifestyle  and where it is leading them. Certain fetishises drift outside the norm and  most people find this somewhat difficult to comprehend, especially if it has the ability to cross boundaries that are best not discussed here. I cannot recall this subject  rearing it's head previously but by saying honor a person's fetishism is a big ask in anyone's book.

  2. No personal digs intended and was intended to be taken In a light hearted way. I am fully aware of everyone on here having there own little thing and fully respect their reasons for it.

    I have just returned after being away for a good while and wanted to see how things were progressing or not as the case maybe. I've no idea what happened to all my other posts I made previously but whatever. I used to spend quite a while with woods and Hollywood on the shoutbox then and had loads of fun with the banter. I will see how things are before diving in with another subscription.

  3. How strong is your fetish?   Do you rule it, or does it rule you? Here is a doctors reply concerning mental illness.

     

    Fetishism may not become an illness unless it starts encroaching upon your normal functioning and relationships. And to call it an addiction, you will have to have the symptoms of addiction. When you start spending too much time looking for opportunities to have your sexual fantasies fulfilled, it may be called an addiction. 

     
    Some psychologists believe that sexual fetishism arises out of conditioning of the mind. Today, researches have linked fetishism to emotional problems. A lack of love and affection in childhood may lead to projection of such affection on certain objects such a jacket in your case. 
     
    You cannot overcome the urges to act out through your fetish without re-orienting your sexual / orgasmic responses. This process needs time and a lot of hard work and the success rate is limited. If you are able to have a good and satisfying relationship with your partner, you may have to decide if you really want to eliminate the fetishism. Of course, if it is going to create problems in your life and relationships, you may have to consult a behavior therapist experienced in this area. 
  4. I couldn't believe it when I joined because there was Veronica and Lucas, Dash and Denis and Alina and Antony all at it at exactly the same time  I kept my subs for a while but it was never as good as that first day  I like to see guests because some are stunning and it makes a pleasant change

  5. Constructive comment Ragnar  ? I believe not. Kaydub has made a valid point concerning viewer locations and cameras and I merely pointing out that given time and investment this business has huge potential.

    One of the drawbacks of posting on open forums is that quite often it is used as vehicle for idiots, trolls whatever to provide an endless unwarranted barrage of abuse and sarcasm for their own personal gain.

    In this instance Ragmar, I will give you the benefit of the doubt and assume your reply was due to you either 1) Having a bad day 2) Alcohol induced verbosity 3)A general disregard for net etiquette or a combination of all three.

    No doubt you will probably return with some inane comment and prove my point.

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