Heii.
Been away from RLC and this forum for awhile, but found my way back.

I been wondering this, does your significant other know about RLC ? 
Myself Im in a complicated On/Off relationship, but we dont live together .. so I watch RLC alone, I dont need him to know about it. Its not that I am emberassed about it or anything. But I dont feel the need to.

So how about other viewers who live with their significant other. Does the other part know you watch ? Have you watched it together ? 

Hello 90noway,

I try my best to avoid my wife finding out about RLC.    Maybe she would be sympathetic and understanding - and both those attitudes would make me feel embarrassed.    Perhaps this is because I am late 60s in age.     If she did find out maybe I would explain some of what I find so interesting, but for me the pleasure is to be enjoyed on my own.   

Watching RLC and posting here on forum allows me to indulge and display  an aspect of myself that I cannot express in my normal life.  

We grew up in an age in which sex was embarrassing and pornography not really acceptable - sad for us, but I'm pleased attitudes are nowadays so much more free, in countries relatively free of religion anyway.

The way you phrase your enquiry suggests that you might be willing to enjoy RLC together with your partner - if you had the right partner.   (Please don't take that as any reflection on your current relationship, but only as my understanding from the way you phrase things.)     

For now you enjoy it on your own.   No surprise.   Love's a complicated business.    Even when true love's thunderbolt hits we need our own space and our own fantasies.      

It may be different for you, but for me and I suspect many men, the only partner that truly understands our sexuality is in our head and our own hands.

 

 

 

 

On 17.3.2017 at 0:37 AM, iloner said:

Hello 90noway,

I try my best to avoid my wife finding out about RLC.    Maybe she would be sympathetic and understanding - and both those attitudes would make me feel embarrassed.    Perhaps this is because I am late 60s in age.     If she did find out maybe I would explain some of what I find so interesting, but for me the pleasure is to be enjoyed on my own.   

Watching RLC and posting here on forum allows me to indulge and display  an aspect of myself that I cannot express in my normal life.  

We grew up in an age in which sex was embarrassing and pornography not really acceptable - sad for us, but I'm pleased attitudes are nowadays so much more free, in countries relatively free of religion anyway.

The way you phrase your enquiry suggests that you might be willing to enjoy RLC together with your partner - if you had the right partner.   (Please don't take that as any reflection on your current relationship, but only as my understanding from the way you phrase things.)     

For now you enjoy it on your own.   No surprise.   Love's a complicated business.    Even when true love's thunderbolt hits we need our own space and our own fantasies.      

It may be different for you, but for me and I suspect many men, the only partner that truly understands our sexuality is in our head and our own hands.

 

 

 

 

I understand you   I guess most keep RLC for themselves. But yes, in the right relationship I think it would be nice to watch it with a partner, could be interesting

Good to have something for yourself... But watched it with an Ex few times and she loved it.

Need to dig the ex back up, more fun than watching this lot... lol

15 hours ago, Scotsman84 said:

Need to dig the ex back up, more fun than watching this lot... lol

Haha, pretty boring lately ..

Would you watch CB together? Probably not; then why watch rlc together? It's kinda watching personal lives unfold. I'd think there'd be quarrels if invited. My opinion?  

        Let secrets be secrets........... Who knows, it might add a bit of spice; then she'll really wonder what you've been doing behind her back.

I totally get what you saying  
I dont think it would be quarrels, but maybe that would be more likely the other way around .. Man telling his girl about RLC ?

For now RLC is something I watch alone, and maybe Ill always watch it alone .. Time will tell