it as been brought to my attention again , that alot of new members who try and become involved are shunned by the regulars , ok i have seen some regulars saying hello to them and after that they are ignored . remember some members are not as quick at typing and also there internet is slower so they will fall behind in the context of the chat , also some members like to test the water before they jump in , so can all the regulars who use the chatbox please try and help the newbies become more involved ,