alberto83 Posted May 13, 2016 Share Posted May 13, 2016 I noticed cuts on Anezka's left arm and bruises on her legs. According to many researchers, who study self-Injury, when some people feel sad, distressed, anxious, or confused, the emotions might be so extreme that they lead to acts of self-injury. Many people experience stress, but stress can feel very different for different people. Is she self-harming? I leave the question open Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dundas Posted May 13, 2016 Share Posted May 13, 2016 I noticed cuts on Anezka's left arm and bruises on her legs. According to many researchers, who study self-Injury, when some people feel sad, distressed, anxious, or confused, the emotions might be so extreme that they lead to acts of self-injury. Many people experience stress, but stress can feel very different for different people. Is she self-harming? I leave the question open Hi Alberto, my thoughts were in the same direction and I wrote 2 pieces in Anezka's fan page. If this is the case I hope she will return to the bruising and stop the scratching. Hope Karel can be of some help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imeanreally Posted May 13, 2016 Share Posted May 13, 2016 (edited) On 2016-05-13 at 0:17 PM, Dundas said: If this is the case I hope she will return to the bruising and stop the scratching. If any of this is true, how about we hope that she gets the help she needs to get better and stop self-harming? (Image Content No Longer Available) Edited August 22, 2017 by StnCld316 CowArt 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dundas Posted May 13, 2016 Share Posted May 13, 2016 (edited) On 2016-05-13 at 3:57 PM, imeanreally said: If any of this is true, how about we hope that she gets the help she needs to get better and stop self-harming? (Image Content No Longer Available) She needs to be accompanied by a psychiatrist and maybe she already is. The stopping of auto-mutilation is difficult unless you put her in isolation with a single canvas shirt and maybe even have to fixate her on a bed, attached to the floor. And her nails should be shortened every few days. Then it will stop, but certainly not solve the trauma, on the contrary her mental condition will become worse. And it would become pure hell for her and thus is not the right way. She must not be allowed to draw attention to her by means of the scratching for then it will increase. Only attention she must get is the necessary medical care, no more. The treatment is for the psychiatrist. She does not even want to do it herself but is driven to it by tension and that is what she should learn to control. The scratching will then stop eventually. But as I said elsewhere there are severe cases who never stop, maybe only when they are getting old. It raises a lot of compassion but, again, don't show it. Just say I'm sorry it had to happen. And absolutely don't blame or reject her ! Pick up ordinairy life as soon as possible. Edited August 22, 2017 by StnCld316 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imeanreally Posted May 13, 2016 Share Posted May 13, 2016 She needs to be accompanied by a psychiatrist and maybe she already is. The stopping of auto-mutilation is difficult unless you put her in isolation with a single canvas shirt and maybe even have to fixate her on a bed, attached to the floor. And her nails should be shortened every few days. Then it will stop, but certainly not solve the trauma, on the contrary her mental condition will become worse. And it would become pure hell for her and thus is not the right way. She must not be allowed to draw attention to her by means of the scratching for then it will increase. Only attention she must get is the necessary medical care, no more. The treatment is for the psychiatrist. She does not even want to do it herself but is driven to it by tension and that is what she should learn to control. The scratching will then stop eventually. But as I said elsewhere there are severe cases who never stop, maybe only when they are getting old. It raises a lot of compassion but, again, don't show it. Just say I'm sorry it had to happen. And absolutely don't blame or reject her ! Pick up ordinairy life as soon as possible. I'll tell you who needs the psychiatrist and isolation in a canvas shirt, and it's not Anezka. pervious and CowArt 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dundas Posted May 14, 2016 Share Posted May 14, 2016 I'll tell you who needs the psychiatrist and isolation in a canvas shirt, and it's not Anezka. You asked what will stop her auto-mutilations and I explained she must learn to control her tensions which causes them, with the help of a psychiatrist. And live as normally as possible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toolmaker123 Posted May 14, 2016 Share Posted May 14, 2016 You asked what will stop her auto-mutilations and I explained she must learn to control her tensions which causes them, with the help of a psychiatrist. And live as normally as possible. Yeah, LIVE as normal as possible; having cameras on your actions 24/7. IT'd probably take a whole field of psycho-cria-sists to straighten that mentality out after being posted all over the internet, naked photos, and sexual actions for the whole world to see. Might explain the mental state of many of the tenants before arriving at RealLifeCam.com in the first place. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dundas Posted May 14, 2016 Share Posted May 14, 2016 Oh, absolutely, elsewhere I wrote how real is life with a house full of camara's. And Anezka is not the only model to be seen with scars. But there are those who model out of fun because they have a free mind and aren't botherred by human invented restrictions (in combination with nice earnings) and reject sense of shame: f.i. lifestyle in camps and at beaches and at home is growing all over the world. But if things go wrong and a crises is at hand it would be nice to be of help if possible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xrayman49 Posted May 19, 2016 Share Posted May 19, 2016 Maybe if Karel got off his ass and give some attention to her things would be better. He only cares about himself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TBird97 Posted May 19, 2016 Share Posted May 19, 2016 Another possibility is that Anezka may be on some sort of blood thinner. If she is, then she will get cuts and bruises quite easily. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dundas Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 Another possibility is that Anezka may be on some sort of blood thinner. If she is, then she will get cuts and bruises quite easily. Could be, as well as having haemophilia, but blood thinners are mostly given after an infarct caused by a clot in the blood and concerns usually old(er) people. Anezka is a young woman, who is seen crying and yesterday in the bath-tub her thoughts seemed very far away, was she dissociating (as many traumatized women do) ? Bloodthinners don't cause (razor-blade ?) scratches on the left arm, right thigh and an arrow on the right shin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TBird97 Posted May 20, 2016 Share Posted May 20, 2016 Blood thinners will make you more susceptible to scratches if you scratch yourself hard enough and cause easy bruising. They are also prescribed to people who who have had heart problems or high blood pressure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dundas Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 Blood thinners will make you more susceptible to scratches if you scratch yourself hard enough and cause easy bruising. They are also prescribed to people who who have had heart problems or high blood pressure. Do you have an explanation why the fresh scratches, May 13th., were not bleeding ? Your concern for Anezka's well-being is a very good thing but her problems are most likely mental and not physical. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TBird97 Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 Sundas, scratches don't have to necessarily bleed. I have scratched myself a few times without causing any bleeding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dundas Posted May 21, 2016 Share Posted May 21, 2016 It's obvious you have made your choise so only observation of her behaviour will clear things out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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