Hector is a scum bag and no it is not a lady's place to hit or abuse, it is no ones place to hit and abuse anyone no matter the sex but a man hitting a woman is something I was raised to believe is an absolute no no and I have never personally hit a woman though I've had one or to that could have used a good slap I did not see the fight between them so I have no idea how wild she got but you never hit a woman just block, crouch, spin, sway loll