Completely agree with Plank.
This is the main reason why sometimes I watch and read without logging in, and depending on how the chat is going and who is on, then I may or may not log in.
I have witnessed some ugly stuff going on as you mentioned.
When I first started logging in, conversations were pretty much fun and friendly even with difference of opinions, but there is definitely a recent trend of feuding and ganging up on others with different opinions.
Bottom line for me is that RLC and their tenants don't pay my bills, so whether they perform or not is irrelevant to me, I take what I can and I'm fine with it, when I see the value for me, THAN I will pay to watch RLC with no expectations (after all it is suppose to be real life) and any apartments I don't care for I don't watch or pay much attention to.
RLCF for me is about coming in, chatting with others from all over the world and getting their views and perspectives about RLC and what is going on in the apartments or whatever the conversation may be at the time.
I definitely do not come here to get aggravated with people. I have a wife and two kids for that LOL.