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Perhaps I should rephrase the question. What does your ideal chat look like? I'm not being facetious.

Can someone please tell me where the bullying is? Name names. Even if it's me. Just get it out there. I'll help if I can.

You know, you're a pretty serious dude for someone who's avatar always features a skull.

Thanks for looking at it. I was gonna say something before but I was doing something else.

No this.

Is that how you would like to be addressed?

Go ahead, Danny boy. Take me on.

Better than hiding in the shadows.

Misunderstood

LOL, you wouldn't be banned for that, bro

She's RLC's flagship. I love her and her body is still beautiful to me. But she is getting bigger whether we acknowledge it or not. I just fear that she will get even bigger. We all know how it works.

Does anyone replying even know what the original post means? What exactly does a "spy in one of the apartments" mean? Y'all don't even know wtf anyone's talking about before you comment.

That's because the rest of her looks bigger, LOL

Wow. What a difference a year makes. On the top is Leora a year ago. The other is from yesterday. A fold now appears on her waist when she moves her hips.

Hey zzak, you're famous! LOL

I appear to do that sometimes, you're right. Sorry about that. Was just being logical/facetious. I do care about the subject and I listen to what everyone says.

Or never "interfere". Ever. Because someone somewhere might get pissed off.

Never. And why would anyone care if no one was left?

I never questioned anyone's right to say anything. Just asked for more feedback. i'm sure you would approve of that.

Then we'd better learn to get along or sink. I for one, will not allow the ship to sink. At least as long as I have time to watch it. Elle, your pointing out of a benign pronoun doesn't help. Unless you have more to say.

A huge than you to Marga for her perspective. For me, I have been in contact with many of the ladies in PM on and off. Mostly off. I feel us guys are just trying to figure out what we're supposed to do. Be serious? Play? Just relax and watch? The lines are always blurred in real life so here, where we rely only on the written word, it's like reading Sanskrit. Hell, there are just guys in similar forums cutting each other's throats. As a woman, you must imagine some of the things that go on. You have members running in packs sometimes. This is why some people get pissed at chat. I opened this discussion not inadvertently, as Harry1949 said, but purposely to get right to the core of some of the problems. I won't even talk about gays because I'll get thrown out on my ear, but I am a progressive and I am for everyone enjoying this. There needs to be better understanding or someone will sure as hell always be pissed off.

StnCld316, is it not policy to alert a member when their thread gets responses or did my time in the non-members time-out cage cause that? This is not off-topic as I feel like I should be alerted so I can respond. Thanks.

Thanks for the GIF.

Elle, I think you underestimate what's going on in the chat area. I think people are mostly bored and just try to come up with something to say and everyone else plays off that. If that becomes the norm then perhaps no one else has tried enough to break through it. Hey, I'm the first one to talk shit so I get it, but I think too many people only feel like they are intruding. I get the silent treatment all the time, or do I? I don't really care. The thing is, I don't see anyone flaming anyone else. Or am I wrong?

If this is the case, this is the place they may share their feelings with us so that we may act accordingly.