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dougiestyle4u

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  1. 14 hours ago, vampire said:

    Not sure why so many people hate us chatters

    I, personally, don't hate the chatters. What I hate about the Chat is the content being discussed. Every day it is mainly about Realifecam but more particular about the Barca girls. Barca is put on a pedestal and the chatters appear to make them out as something special to follow. The girls do nothing but the chatters highlight and over analyze their little movements. Reallifecam is basically a shit show compared to 4 to 6 years ago but the chatters keep finding themselves hooked on it. Forget about getting a hardon or even a semi - lol.

    Just my opinion - if the chatters would ease up on the amount of Reallifecam/Barca talk and start talking more about other voyeur cam sites or anything of interest outside RLC then I believe some members WOULD try chatting again. Remember years ago when myself and other long-term members would chat with you and others pretty much within the 24 hour period during almost every day of the week. There was some chat about the RLC apartments but it was open and free to talk about anything and constant joking and laughing. Remember Blaster entering the Chat Room with his funny short videos or gifs? Even new members would jump in because the chat was "interesting and funny" (that was how I got enough nerve to sign up with Reallifecamfan.com). I really wanted to chat with all the great respectful and funny chatters which enabled us to have friends around the world through this social media site.

    Vampire, take a time out and think about the mostly same few chatters every day over the last 2 years. Is it because the long-term members hate the chatters? Do new members also hate the chatters and the reason why they don't participate or even continue after a few weeks of some chatting? Is RLC so bad that no one wants to chat about any apartments? I believe this statement to be true. To me, it is the constant petty talk about the Barca girls that turns members off from joining in discussions. It is like having to listen to a Kitty fit for hours and days on end - just shoot me FFS - lol. One time my girlfriend argued with me and wouldn't stop bitchin' at me so I snapped and told her to SHUT THE FUCK UP!!! Smart me, I knew as soon as the words were leaving my mouth that I would be in deep shit. Sure enough, boy did I pay for that one BIG time- I lost my manhood and balls and had to apologize profusely. Funny isn't it that women don't seem to appreciate the words "shut the fuck up" but when someone would tell me to "shut the fuck up" I would give a thumbs up and enjoy the quiet time out - LMFAO.  I am easy going and don't take things too personal. Just adding some humor to a touchy subject.

    The Chat Room is the main focus of this site but NOT well used and has resulted in very poor overall participation within this site (both Chat Room and Forums). My honest opinion, the Chat content of discussions has to change in order for this site to gain more participation by old and new members. Our negativity hasn't killed this site but the Barca, Barca, Barca talk has. Not much else to say, because I try to say what keeps me from entering the Chat Room. I think the chatters need to huddle and decide on whether to use a new play book within the Chat Room.

  2. Feel free to join in the Chat Room if you want to talk Reallifecam/Barca shit. Amazing how long the Chat Room has pretty much owned or taken over this site. Even members that had participated in the Chat Room and support the chatters are nowhere to be found. Why? The only thing that describes my disbelief in how such few chatters control this site is "WOW".

  3. It is widely understood that the main topic of discussion in the Chat Room by the few xcamfan.com participants is about Reallifecam but mostly the Barca girls. There is not much of anything posted by the Chatters in the Fan pages of the Reallifecam apartments or castles.

    Any forum posts by the few xcamfan.com participants are usually about everything other than the Reallifecam apartments or fan pages. Any general comments in different topics in the forums of xcamfan.com tend to be negative about the Reallifecam apartments and in particular the Barca tenants.

    So, obviously neither Chatters or forum posters give a real shit about Realifecam or any of the tenants to add comments or to be a "real" fan of them. Therefore, fan pages are meaningless with no history of them to bother following or to look back on.

    What does that tell you? Reallifecam doesn't have true fans that want to support individual tenants. It is safe to say that most, if not all, forum posters dislike what Reallifefan.com has become over the past 2-4 years. The Chatters don't care to provide info/comments about the Reallifecam tenants or in particular their supposed cherished Barca girls. 

    In conclusion, the forum posters don't like Reallifecam, dislike most of the tenants such the trashy Barca girls and dislike the Chat Room. The chatters only like to talk about the live current action of the Reallifecam apartments but mainly the Barca contestants. Basically, all that the Chat Room has become is a play by play about what is happening, what might happen soon or guesses why something happened and what the Barca girls do when not active on Reallifecam.  Are chatters followers, stalkers, perverts, or are so deeply fixated on any current, new or returning Barca girl to talk their every move. 

    Does anyone know if their is a vaccine available yet for the Barca virus because it is killing Reallifecam.com and xcamfan.com?

  4. On 12/21/2020 at 10:46 PM, RUBBERMAN said:

    Me and you no that the Chat Room is controlled and well continue to be that way until some one higher up stops it, change things and allow others to come in and speak freely with out being cast out.   We have lost of lot of members and good ones "and its not all because of the forum. 

    After all these years it appears that the Chat Room gang will control the future of this site and by losing a lot of members over the past two years - the future of this site is very questionable. The percentage of new members actually participating often or for any length of time has to be dismal. I just can't make any sense of how the owner/Admin of this site ignores the pleas to improve things or just let it flounder the way it has. It is so obvious how bad this site has deteriorated and IT IS NOT because of the forum postings or us talking negatively about certain things. The chat room discussions are idiotic as if the chatters "own/pimp" the tenants and know their every move and follow their lives away from RLC. I really don't know what is worse - the pathetic chatters or the RLC owners for putting out a weak/terrible product.

  5. I first thought to do a poll to see why members chose to disappear or log into this site less now but no point since hardly any members show up anymore. This topic is done in case some members do log in once in a while and see this forum topic and care to add their two cents worth or opinion. What has become of this site and why very little, if any, participation? 

    Some may say that the negative talk in the forums is the cause. Some may say that the type of childish (simple-minded) Barca chatter and which has become an exclusive club is the cause. Some may say that RLC sucks even worse now so it is the cause. Some may say that the new Babble changes have ruined this site and is the cause. Some may say that the significant decrease in forum posts is the cause. Some may say that xcamfan.com has done very little to remove idiot/distracting members from this site and is the cause. Some may say that this site Admin has failed to control how this site has shown respect to members and maintain freedom to discuss other topics (such as Voyeur-House.tv) in the chat room and is the cause. Some may say that this site Admin doesn't make any appearances in the Chat Room and adds to the cause. Can't blame covid-19 since more people stay home because of it.

    In my honest opinion, negative talk is always part of any discussions as long as it doesn't get disrespectful to members. So, after saying this, I believe ALL the other suggested causes mentioned above combined have discouraged members and resulted in their daily or weekly disappearance from this site and for some to quit altogether. 

    RLC controls their site and have restrictions on any posting of images which is brutal. So, it is what it is.

    Bottom line, according to me - xcamfan.com isn't helping themselves to encourage participation and willingness to improve the overall site by dealing with the above mentioned possible causes related to member frustrations.

         Just putting this out there so comment if you wish.

     

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