Un4Given71

LOL

Haven't been on either RLC or RLCF recently, find both are getting boring and waste of time. Seems a lot of the old school members have had enough too. Try and catch up when i can. Have Fun  

Sorry folks; you will get no sympathy from me. When you each open your own business and give away your service for free get back to me. If you complain that RLC stuff is junk then what the hell are you there watching it for? You just want to get the good stuff by having others record it for you and post it, risking their membership dollars. If you want it then pay. If you do not want to pay then you have absolutely no right to bitch about the quality of the apartments nor the rules for free usage. 

Consensual sex; Not Rape.
WTF?
       Sex can be fun, as observed by the other tenants of ReaLifeCam.com. Watch the ones like T&W and O&N.  M&S------------They have fun with the sex. That's what we want to see; Not animals out to kill and maim. Those guys would have hurt her if she hadn't given in.
  Hopefully now they get to be someone's bitch in an 8 X 8. 
 It's really too bad--------Sorry to see the apartment shut down, it looked like an answer to some requests to the Administrators, too.

Is this the rant section of the forums? Yes? Good, here we go then:
I am getting sick and tired of the girls of the B1 and B2 being accused of being prostitutes without any proof. I can't be on the chatbox for more than an hour before someone starts suggesting the girls are selling themselves for money or gifts. In most cases it's just an opinion that gets thrown out there, some chatters even have "proof", that later turns out to be some conversation that has been falsely or incompletely translated, or something that they saw on the cameras that gets misinterpreted or completely taken out of context.
I'm done with it. It takes the joy out of the chatroom for me. I tried poking holes in the theories, or suggesting alternative, more reasonable explanations, but it's like talking to a brick wall.
So from this moment forward, anyone who posts any more of those accusations on the chat, without proper proof to back it up, is going on my ignore list for a week. No matter who it is or for how long I've had pleasant chats with them, no exceptions. If that means I'll be staring at an (for me) empty chatbox within 24 hours, so be it.
I've had enough of this shit.

One more thing I would like to vent about: The non-stop complaining. And yes, I do realize I'm now starting a complaint about too much complaining.
I have the feeling a lot of RLC members are not getting what they want at the moment, but to me it's unclear what it is exactly that they want. The consensus seems to be we want Real Life. We see the girls watching a movie, texting, chatting with each other, go out during the day, go out at night, occasionally come home drunk in the middle of the night. All seems real life to me, my real life wasn't very different when I was in my twenties, with the only exception that the smartphone wasn't invented yet. But real life isn't very exciting, so the complaints start rolling in that the girls are out too much, don't do much when they're not out, are not performing for us. In short: they're not delivering what they're getting paid for. Debatable statement, since nobody has ever seen a RLC-tenant-contract, we have no clue what they're being paid for. Then all of a sudden some, or all, of the girls spring into action. They start dancing, host a party, do bodypainting, or even one of them starts eating another out, and a whole new set of complaints start rolling in, mostly from exactly the same users: It's all scripted, it's uninspired, it's fake, it's a show for the cameras. What the hell is it that these users want from the girls? Real life isn't good because it's too boring, more than real life isn't good either because it isn't real life... The girls can't win no matter what they do, and we are stuck with a chatbox in which half the posts consist of complaints and negative remarks by users who at times seem to be deliberately searching for things on the cameras to get pissed off about.
A lesson I learned a long time ago is not get worked up over things that are beyond my control. I'm the first to admit that regarding RLC that lesson slipped my mind a couple of times, evidence of that is in various posts across the forums, until it dawned upon me that the only thing I can control is whether I keep sending my money to RLC or not. I cancelled my subscription in October. That lasted a bit over a month until withdrawal symptoms kicked in, so I've been back since mid-November, with an adjusted expectation level. I know what I want from RLC now: I'm here just for the Barça-apartments: I want to see pretty girls in various stages of dress/undress, them getting along would be nice, anything more than that I consider a bonus, as well as whatever happens in any of the other apartments.
At the moment I am getting what I want: seven girls, all of them beautiful, all of them different (well two of them are not that different, but they are definitely not identical either). And when I log on to RLC for an hour or maybe two in the evening, I have a good chance of seeing at least half of them naked.
We're all different, we all have different preferences, expectations, and everybody is entitled to their opinion. Nobody is 100% right and nobody is 100% wrong here (except the fellow on chat last night that was convinced I'm an RLC-agent, infiltrating in RLCF to defend the tenants). But for me, the healthiest way to watch RLC is with above mindset. Low expectations, lean back and enjoy the show. 

Elvis has left the building!

Awww! The animals are protecting her.
Dog says,"You can't go any further unless you give me food."
Cat says."One wrong move boy & you will be wearing a fur face mask!"

To be honest, you would have to be stupid and blind not to see the warnings RLC have about posting images - but just incase you do fit that category:
 
"Video has additional hidden watermarks with user ID.  Recording, distribution or publication are strictly prohibited"
 
So all I can say, copy and repost at your own peril.  RLC are a business not a charity, and quite rightly they are protecting their property.  If they allowed unrestricted copying and distribution of the cams, how many here would bother taking out membership?  Nope you would just use sites like RLCF and CC to see what had happened.  And then complain when the site shuts down because they can't afford to run it anymore.

So if someone like Debbie wants to do it for free because they are an exhibitionist that is all fine and well. But if someone wants to do it to earn money then screw them because viewers who want a thrill are too fucking cheap? Guess you work for your employer for free, how commendable!

As of today 06/01/16 , I am putting a stop to any links to the outside life of  tenants on RLC ,being disclosed on this site , if you want to share info please use the messaging system , The reason for me doing this is for 2 reasons , 1st reason , RLC have given us some freedom in posting pics etc from there site , and we don't  want to upset the applecart , we have a great gallery would be ashame to jeopardize it , 2nd reason== the links are visible to unscrupolous arseholes who dont sign up to this site just visit as a guest and then they copy the links and post elsewhere , so guys no more links to be publicised live keep it internal between members using the message system , 

Am giving him the benefit of the doubt and hope it turns out ok but patience could be wearing a bit thin but not giving up hope yet.

Is there really anyone who thinks tim is ever going to produce a site? Cute.

RLC must know what this apartment is all about in terms of the tenants and and all the guests coming (or cumming) and going and the heavy use of Hookah/vaping. So far i have not seen any evidence or proof of gay sex or even kissing. I suspect in time we will. Personally my main attention is Stesha. She intrigues me and i find her quite attractive.
 
  Whatever happens in this apartment is okay with me because everyone out there is different and have much different likes and loves - whatever. If this apartment ends up not suitable for me or you - there are many other apartments to look at. My dislike for Paul, Lev and Hector minimizes my viewing of Leora, Zoya and Suzan. If RLC doesn't do it for me i check other voyeur sites, webcam sites or porn. There are gay webcam sites and gay porn sites but you can avoid them just as easily as switching RLC apartments.
 
   There are many female RLC and RLCF members that probably like this apartment because of all the guys prancing around in their underwear. Perhaps they would like the guys to just go buck naked and let it all hang out (like our sweet IRMA does in the girls apartment - yet no one complaining). Just imagine or visualize all the cocks and balls bouncing around the apartment to go with their bare asses (some hairy asses too). Hey, some people want to see that. Personally i am all for providing more tease for the females (why only for the horny males - females are just as horny, if not hornier than guys).  You see cock and balls when watching heterosexual couples have sex in porn anyways.
 
   Also, i am sure there are many gay male RLC and RLCF members that like this new apartment and the possibility of gay sex. They need their voyeur thrill as well.
 
   Personally, i do not like anything forced down my throat (especially a cock - lol) with the exception of a girl/woman forcing herself on me to have sex - i wish. I avoid talking too specific about gay sex acts because it would create arguments. I mind my own business but over the years i have learned to be more accepting of others and things in this short, crazy and sometimes scary life.
 
      In a general statement - i am all for sex - totally against any kind of hatred and violence

Since Stesha and Marco's apartment opened for business there has been an outpouring of homophobic comments.  I will freely admit it isn't something I want to see so I will do the totally absurd thing and change to another apartment room.  Yep totally radical idea I know, but for all I know there are members, even paid members, of RLC that might want to watch it and whom am I to judge.
 
What I do find totally hypocritical is the same ones who are whining and bitching about two guys kissing (or they think two guys might kiss or touch each other!) is they expect EVERY FUCKING WOMAN in the Project to be at minimum bi-sexual and will rant and rave if two women who are in the same apartment don't immediately strip naked and start fucking each other.  Talk about double standards

Is there really anyone who thinks tim is ever going to produce a site? Cute.

I wasn't too sure on where to place this topic, technically I guess it should be in the Suggestions folder but in reality, this is a rant so hence I put it here ....
 
Anyway, this is a request to the great and powerful BTR.  Next time you get whoever to add some new bling to this site, would it be possible to add an icon or something to a member's name to indicate whether they are paid members of RLC or not?  Can be a voluntary thing I guess, to be able to be turned on or off via Profile edit.
 
The reason:  so when I am reading a post or something in the shout box and some brain dead idiot is demanding everything I can quickly and discretely check to see if he is an actual paid member of RLC.  So sick and tired of people here demanding everything yet not willing to pay for the service.  I guess these mental giants expect RLC to be a charity and provide everything for zero cost.  Every day it seems someone is asking for more free rooms or bitching about something not happening in the girls apartment simply because they can't see it on the blurred thumbnails.  Or jumping into the Shout Box and asking for passwords or pictures.
 
Sorry, rant over, just fed up with those complaining that have no right to complain.

What Mooka described concerning the girls' apartment is absolutely correct. The chat gets very miserable at peak hours, which is why I tend to show my face when things have died down. I agree that the environment cannot be roses all the time, but allowing the negativity (theories, conspiracies or otherwise) to be common just diminishes the quality of the site and makes it uncomfortable for other members.
 
I find myself cringing at the shout-box regularly.

I must admit, I too am avoiding the chatbox, and most of you will confirm I was a most avid chatter in the beginning. I only tend to chat now if I see the "old guard" etc. chatting about something other than the girls apartment.
 
In addition to the negativity, the constant and I mean the constant talk of the 3 girls is driving me insane... will they be in the same bed, will they massage, will they touch, will they bathe together, will they kiss, will they fuck, are they escorts, do they have boyfriends, are they models, where has she gone out, when will she come back and so it goes on.
 
When I started on RLC, I too fell for the charms of the girls apartment, but then I saw it for what it was, a money maker for RLC. Sorry to burst your bubble, but It's just 3 straight girls, thrust into a shared apartment having traveled to the west on 30, 60 or 90 day visas, to try and break through in the modelling world, or perhaps even to meet rich western men.
 
As for the pseudo touching, massaging, kissing and then doing nothing... how do I put this, most of the girls were identified as having boyfriends back home, at the end of the day and sorry to burst a few bubbles here, the girls are STRAIGHT... anything they do is to preserve a roof over their heads, nothing more. Think about it Chloe and Joshua failed to attract the viewers, they were gone in month. Its web views that count to RLC, the tenants are probably (intially anyway) on contracts with 7-14 days notice. If that is the case and the girls are on 90 day visas, who wants to be homeless, in a foreign country after only being in a country for 30 days, living on the streets until they can return home... of course they are going to play up to the cameras, purely to preserve a roof over their heads.
 
In fact I tell you what, why don't you and 2 other blokes, travel to a country on the other side of the word to you on a 90 day visa, with little or no money, no friends, no family, no support network, into an apartment, where you can live for free, free food etc. on a 7 day tenancy on the strict proviso you maintain interest in your apartment, preserve that interest you can stay but if figures drop, you are out.
 
How far would you go to preserve a roof over your heads... prancing round an apartment in your pants with the other blokes, the occasional wank on your own under the covers, or in the bath, a panted/ naked bath with one of the other blokes, a bit of body painting, a massage with one of the other blokes.. because thats what you get at the moment, from the girls apartment, nothing more.
 
I recall that a few months ago, when she who shall not be named, whose name began with an "I", who name rhymed with "boner", BTR banned any mention of her name (it may even have been her apartment, I cannot recall), but that seems to have slipped by the wayside.
 
Don't get me wrong, I love RLC, but the constant mention of the girls apartment is driving me insane. 

One of the reasons why I joined this site was the Chat Box.  Yes reading the forum posts and catching up on all the gossip was part of it, but originally I enjoyed the repartee and banter in the box.
 
But lately I have been avoiding it like the plague.  All it seems to be is negative, who can talk the most shit about tenants.  Never a nice word about them, it seems everyone commenting can do a better job as a RLC tenant.  And let's not forget all the tough keyboard warriors there who jump down anyone's throat if they dare have anything nice to say about a tenant.  Hell according to these experts, every tenant in the Project is either ugly, useless, boring, brain dead or is in some mysterious conspiracy.
 
Here's a hint, if you can't find ONE thing about RLC you like, maybe you should be here, there are plenty of other sites around but all this bullshit is turning people off both RLC and RLCF, make no mistake about it.

Dear Blue and Bonnie. 
I don't really know either of you, but this is my tribute to Blue and your situation. 
Get well soon. 
 




 
Bearhugs from the Un4Given <3

I must whole heartedly agree with Mooka, i have now learnt to not jump in with both feet and give an alternative opinion to certain members as i know only to well the response i would get and you end up in a downward spiral of abuse which doesn't do anyone any good.
Having said that it is very hard sometimes to bite your tongue and restrain yourself especially when the other member is just being,well lets be honest, a downright cunt.
One in particular seems to have gone from our screens recently,whether he has been banned or as he was always saying going to go, i don't know but it is nice to not have this particular member around.
His partner in crime does seem to have calmed down a bit since which is good as i am sure he is a decent member at heart.
We will always get the odd ones around but in the main the members on here are very good and we all have a good chinwag and laugh at times even if most of us are old fossils.
Apologies to those who aren't lol.
it can be a bit difficult at times to understand some of the non english speaking members but it all adds to the mix and provides a joke often.

which is why RLC offer free cams to view and RLCF have the forums .the sole purpose is to let you know what RLC is all about before you commit to a paid membership to it ,and if ANYONE paid for RLC membership without finding out as much as possible about it ,....Then please subscribe to my other site just $25 for the numbers to next months lottery , winninglottonumbers.com    lmao

I fully agree with what BTR is trying to do.  The problem, however, is going to be harder to police.  We have a small core of ShoutBox users who assume it is their civic duty to give blow by blow 'interpretation', 'guesses' and wild suppositions based on rumour, innuendo - or worse, third person reporting of what someone heard someone else say some other person said on another site.  For the more cynical of the SB users, me included, we tend to take these REVELATIONS with a grain of salt and sometimes can't help ourselves to put up a differing viewpoint.  We are then called bullies etc. for basically asking for some semblance of proof.
 
I have imposed a wait and see rule for myself in ShoutBox.  If I see someone on there that I know will upset me, I will just lurk and not participate.  Do I really need to listen to how one member is only interested in one tenant, and what he thinks she is doing when not in the apartment, what she is doing when in the apartment, and what every person she has ever met is doing?  Do I need to read how the girls are really escorts simply because they went out for the night?  I know I will make a smart arse comment and be crucified as being a big bad meanie for having an opinion that differs to some, so I shut the hell up.  I don't need that kind of agro (I have already been threatened once with physical and cyber harm for daring to ask for proof), I will let these people live out their fantasies and they can feel all important for those few seconds longer.
 
So if you see me online in here but not participating in chat, you can hopefully understand why.

Why can't RLC have more than one girls apartment?  Who deemed the Barcelona apartment the ONLY girls apartment?  Who says that the girls have to be a couple?  As for Rita, happy for you she is back but personally I think she is a bigger waste of bandwidth that K and K, adds nothing to the apartment!
 
You want to know why K & K are back - it is simple, enough members on this site (and probably on other sites) jumped up and down and threatened to hold their breath and stamp their feet if Kami and Kristy weren't returned.  So they were returned, and those same people are now calling for their removal. Talk about a fickle audience ....