What stops you getting involved in chat?

[Danny]

1 minute ago, dougiestyle4u said:

Fucked if I know. I don't have all the answers - lol. Perhaps a respected long-time chat user who might have previous experience as a mod on other sites. But someone is badly needed to improve the decorum in the Chat Room.

Agree needs someone.

 

[Danny]

Maybe @Alittle would do it. 

[dougiestyle4u]

5 minutes ago, Danny said:

Maybe @Alittle would do it. 

Doubt she would do it. 

[TBird97]

I don't like the new format for the chatroom. The previous one wasn't the greatest but it was better than the current one, IMHO.

[Alittle]

1 hour ago, dougiestyle4u said:

Doubt she would do it. 

No I will not do it. Sorry.

[Bandit]

Well done @Alittle has to be a record for someone not mentioning the attention seekers apartments. 

[Scotsman84]

3 hours ago, Alittle said:

No I will not do it. Sorry.

What if you get a nice Chat Mod uniform to wear!!  

[Alittle]

2 hours ago, Scotsman84 said:

What if you get a nice Chat Mod uniform to wear!!  

NO.

[Bandit]

19 hours ago, Rhodie said:

I wish I could confront him but I'm  a newbie. See the "drugs" thread and rubberman .I know my place. I've run out of beer so will l bid you goodnight. Nice meeting you Danny.Have a good night.

Everyone else says and does what they want and being a "newbie" shouldn't make a difference. Rose isn't the first and won't be the last, just shows how pathetic they are. 

[iloner]

Chat is a hornets nest.    

At least Forum gives everyone time to reflect.    Even if it is not always gentlemanly, most posters are well-intentioned and take their time to consider they will have to defend what they say.

Sometimes people say sharp things, but over time you realise the same people are mostly positive and embracing of everyone - especially newbies.    

Keep saying what you want to say.    Someone wants to hear it.   

And if it turns out no one is listening - welcome to the club! 

 

 

 

 

[RUBBERMAN]

On 5/5/2018 at 6:05 PM, Rhodie said:

I used to enjoy reading the chat but lately I have come to hate it because of the constant negativity by some people aimed at Rose. I admit, I think she is amazing. I understand everybody has their own opinions and I respect that but some members seem to have a strange  obsession with her? They hate her yet seem to follow her every move, even on instagram?   A bit Norman Bates? If you don't like someone, the solution seems simple, don't watch them. Can we please stop the hate and just enjoy the beautiful ladies?

Welcome to the RLC "General Discussion" my friend "this is what its all about".....enjoy your stay and try not to have an aneurysm over these members "Me" or these young ladies in these apartments....."its a game...learn to play it "like they are with us members."...lol   Yes and I agree "some do have very strange obsessions with these young ladies"....one hand on the mouse and the other on the petter"..lol...No everyone is not going to agree with everything you or I say......don't let the tenants in these apartments sit back a laugh about their paying customers fighting over something that they well never get..."they already have your our money"...."Its no way in hell anyone is going to tell me not to watch something that I have paid for"..LOL

[Rudi]

On 5/6/2018 at 8:48 AM, Alittle said:

NO.

Don't blame you! Like looking after a group of 5 year olds 

[sturmchaser]

Oy, I debated CQ on this topic; I have a lot of concerns, questions, and opinions.  And we all know what opinions are like.  Not sure if I'm ready to express them yet.  I'm quite content just being the 'Murican trucker obsess- sorry, fascinated with - my St Pete baby girl.  I will agree, there is a lot of the "wild west" out in the chat box lately, and a few scoundrels amidst the forum, too.  Vets know how to weed them out, call them out, or just ignore them, which is the best policy here overall.  I'm not quite a vet, just barely over being a "newbie."  But someone mentioned that the term "newbie" is a little discrediting to new forum members, and I agree.  After all, let's not forget, I was here a long time ago under another pseudo until some signals got garbled and I had to create a new user id, which, in essence, made me a "newbie" again, even though I had 8 months under my belt at the time.  And here I am just over a newbie again.  Granted, the term 'newbie' is sort of a right of passage in any internet forum, but still.  SO what I'm saying is a newbie may be a 'newbie' to us under a new pseudo, but they might actually be a vet and have valuable knowledge, but when they express that historical knowledge, are shot down, and not so delicately, I might add.  I have met several of these fine folks offline, and they have given me legitimate reasons why they won't engage the chatbox anymore.  I don't blame them, and I have to agree with them, but, much like some of our other steadfast members, I keep charging once more into the breach.  

We have the entire lot here, for sure: we got jokers (that's me), we got smokers, we got midnight tokers,  ponderers, mehers, philosophers, ESP predictors, speculators, spammers, dictators and hammers, supporters, deniers, whiners and criers, those who get it, those who don't get it, conspiracy theorists, those who are utterly confused but just want to see naked women, those who came here expecting pornhub or xhamster, those who might be female but who are we to really know and those who might be male but who are we to really know?   On top of all this, there's EuroPols, liberals, conservatives, fucking CANADIANS even, and the rest of the political lot which I have no dog in and couldn't care less about.  I think @RUBBERMAN summed it up best a few posts above.  

*Sigh*   I'm out of breath.  A chatbox moderator is indeed a good idea here - to a point.  It would have to be someone SO neutral on all sides and I don't think such a person exists.   For example, I love all you guys (and gurls) here in forum and on chat.  There was one member who had disparaging words toward a former tenant whom I enjoyed watching, and I thought was unfair, but I also realized hey, he's looking at this from a totally diff perspective than me, so I need to respect that opinion.  So it was all kool and the gang.  And we all need to learn how to do that for serendipity here.  

Except until one of you makes the mistake of saying something negative about Kira. 

Then you're a dead man.  I have a unique set of skills.  I will hunt you.  I will find you.  And I WILL kill you.  

Otherwise, HAPPY DAYS for all!    

 

[iloner]

Great post sturmchaser, lots of energy.

I had been watching RLC for nearly two years before I started posting on RLCF as a newbie.   Maybe that applies to many of us.   RLC is an expensive site so it makes sense to lurk for free until you are sure the money is worth it.

Words describe things but usually only have a negative meaning if that is made clear in the context.     Nothing wrong in being a newbie, and if some posts make it appear so then that post should make clear why, and be judged on its reasoning.    (My argument fails with some terms - 'you're a cunt' is clearly meant to be offensive even though we all love cunts!)

Many negative posts here don't really have any reasoning behind them - more a statement of the circumstances of the poster at the time - drunk,  pissed off, unwell, or just wanting to be offensive to get a response.    On another day those same people can be a blast of fun.     Those who are always offensive get ignored and eventually go away.

And of course no subject should be taboo, however passionately others hold their opinions:

So Kira - I do think sometimes she should give Nina a good spanking (and Doe too please).    Does that count as something negative?

 

 

[Shadow V]

On 5/7/2018 at 2:22 PM, Rudi said:

Don't blame you! Like looking after a group of 5 year olds 

5 year olds are more mature and behave better than some on chat do.